Family violenece to me is not okay and it is something that no one should go through in their life. Family Violence is a abuse of any type of movement that is made by one family member against another family member, including child abuse, partner abuse and elder abuse.Making someone feel like they are controlled by someone is never Ok and is not Ok.
Everyone who is in a family should feel safe and loved by others around them. Going through family violenece would make your own childeren feel insecure and alone. This means that everything that they see makes them react a certain way or act differently than they usually like going to school.
My thought of this whole topic is that experiencing family violence can make your childeren or one of your family feel anxious that causes them to do dangerous things to themself and they would feel like they are not wanted anymore.